Her six-year-old daughter, Vaijoresa, was ripped from her arms as an enormous wave from last week's tsunami swept them up.
As she floated away, out of reach, Vaijoresa pleaded, "Mommy, please."
"I just can't believe that she's gone. At such a young age, you know? No parent should have to bury their child. It's supposed to be the other way around," Taitasi Fitiao said while sitting on her front porch next to a shrine to her daughter.
Funerals are being held with heart-rending frequency these days in American Samoa and neighboring Samoa, where tsunami waves roared ashore after an earthquake with a magnitude of up to 8.3 in the Pacific Ocean, killing at least 170 people.
A national prayer service for victims and survivors is scheduled for Sunday at the headquarters of the Congregational Christian Church of America Samoa, the largest religious denomination in the US territory.
Territorial Gov. Togiola Tulafono said the service will bring the community together in the aftermath of the disaster.
In Samoa, scores of grieving people made a heartbreaking decision to sign over victims of the tsunami to the state for burial rather than take them back to ravaged villages for traditional funerals.
Government ministers told a congregation of 100 village and family leaders in a traditional open-sided Samoan meeting house that the state would carry the costs of mass graves of up to 20 in a new cemetery in the capital, Apia, following a memorial service in a nearby sports stadium.
The proposition was voluntary and the government will consider financial assistance to grieving relatives who elect to take their loved ones home.
Government minister Fiana Naomi said she expected about half of Samoa's 129 victims would be buried there.
Tears welled in her eyes as she told The Associated Press that the mass funeral was a radical departure from Samoan tradition.
But she said many of the village homes near where the relatives would traditionally be buried were gone and might not be replaced.
"It's very different, but it's very unusual circumstances," she said.
"The Government sees the devastated areas, there are no buildings there, some villages might be relocated, people have lost everything and they can't hold ceremonies in the usual ways," she said.
"Usually they're very large communal ceremonies, but this is memorializing this event to serve as a constant reminder to us that we need to be prepared for natural disasters," she added.
The burials come as officials shift their focus from rescuing lives to providing survivors with food, water and power, but stressed it didn't mean they were giving up on the missing.
Electricity and water services were restored in about half of the affected villages in Samoa and American Samoa, and almost all of the territory was expected to have power from generators within three to five days, said Ken Tingman, the Federal Emergency Management Agency's federal coordinating officer.
But many survivors refused to return to their villages.
"They're scared; a lot of them have been psychologically affected by seeing their relations die in huge numbers," Laavasa said.
The death toll also includes 32 people in American Samoa and nine in Tonga.
The village of Leone, the center of Christianity on the island, was a bleak landscape of rubble. The beach meeting houses that had been the center of cultural rituals and family meetings were destroyed. An overturned van was jammed into the roof of one beach house.
Leone residents estimate the tsunami destroyed about one-third of the village, which has a population of 3000. The victims were mostly elderly or toddlers. Four villagers were killed while making crafts on the shore.
Friday will be the day that Taitai buries the youngest of her seven children, the active, playful first-grader who was rushing home from school with two cousins after the earthquake hit. Taitasi Fitiao saw them on the way and grabbed Vaijoresa just as the wave hit.
The enormous wave, as high as 3m and moving some 48kmh according to witnesses, lifted them and carried them inland. Two large trucks sandwiched them, scraping the skin off Fitiao's right hand and forcing her to lose her grip on her daughter.
Samoa's tourism industry, meanwhile, said it feared a "second tsunami" of vacation cancellations after the deadly waves wiped out some of the South Pacific country's most idyllic white-sand beaches and resorts.
Tourism is Samoa's largest industry, and travel industry representatives visiting the main island's wrecked southeast coast said Friday about one-quarter of the tourist accommodations had been destroyed.
Samoan tourist industry representatives said the damage on the southeast coastline of the main island of Upolu included four resorts and more than 20 family operations that rented simple traditional huts, known as fale.
