Anger as child abuser to be freed on parole

Sean Clemenger (37) sexually abused a 7-year-old boy on his birthday and was later caught with child-abuse material. Photo: Supplied
Sean Clemenger (37) sexually abused a 7-year-old boy on his birthday and was later caught with child-abuse material. Photo: Supplied
A Dunedin sex offender and former youth-group leader will be released on parole today while the boy he abused 13 years ago remains a recluse who "hates the world".

Sean Paul Clemenger (37) was jailed for four years, three months on three charges of doing an indecent act on a child and, two of distributing child pornography and one of possession.

He will leave Rolleston Prison today, despite the sentence ending in October, after the Parole Board found his risk had decreased to a sufficient level.

Clemenger, at a hearing last month though, admitted “a reasonably high sexual preoccupation”.

He told the board he was working at lowering his sexually deviant arousal but it “crops up every now and then”.

The news of his release was yet another devastating blow to the family of the 7-year-old boy he molested between 2006 and 2007.

“It’s still really raw,” the boy’s mother said.

“It’s not upsetting any more, it’s just anger.”

When the offending started, she said her son’s behaviour changed overnight.

“There was no joy in anything,” she said.

Struggling for answers, she and her husband discussed their problems with friends.

Clemenger was one of those who sat around the table and feigned ignorance despite having groomed the child since the age of 5.

It progressed to the indecent acts, one of which occurred on the boy’s seventh birthday and another in a church playground, which ceased only because it became clear he was hurting the victim.

The mother told the Otago Daily Times there were never any warning signs about Clemenger’s conduct.

“He’s so good at getting on with people,” she said.

She described the work Clemenger had done in prison as “tick-box courses” and doubted he would change, given such a long-standing sexual attraction to children.

The offender told a psychologist his depraved tendencies had emerged at 10 years old and he started viewing pornography a year later.

His predilections were uncovered by his own family in 2006, which led to some counselling and short periods of abstinence.

In 2009, Clemenger was implicated in an investigation by the Department of Internal Affairs and charged with downloading objectionable material.

But he was granted diversion on the proviso he undertake treatment.

It brought no lasting change, however, and Clemenger was caught distributing child-abuse files in 2016, after which he admitted the sexual abuse of the boy a decade earlier.

The mother of the victim said her son had spiralled into ever deeper depression while the man was behind bars.

She said it had been more than two years since he had left his home and she now worried every time the phone rang.

“Every day I think my son will kill himself. He hates the world,” she said.

To add further pain, the family discovered with the recent Parole Board decision, that Clemenger was being released back to Otago.

The mother wanted to warn others who may meet him.

“Don’t trust him,” she said.

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Parole conditions

(To run until April 2021):

  1. To attend assessments and any treatment directed by Probation.
  2. Not to possess alcohol or non-prescription drugs.
  3. Not to enter or loiter near any place where under-16s may congregate.
  4. To disclose to Probation any details of intimate relationships.
  5. Not to possess any internet-capable devices.
  6. To make available to Probation any electronic devices for analysis.
  7. Not to have contact with any under-16s.
  8. Not to have contact with victims of offending.
  9. To obtain approval from Probation for any changes in employment.
  10. To live at an address approved by Probation.

Where to get help 

Suicide/depression related

Need to talk? Free call or text 1737 any time for support from a trained counsellor

Depression healthline: 0800 611 116

Lifeline Aotearoa: 0800 543 354

Suicide Crisis Helpline: 0508 828 865 (0508 TAUTOKO)

Samaritans: 0800 726 666

Alcohol Drug Helpline: 0800 787 797

General mental health inquiries: 0800 44 33 66

The Depression Helpline: 0800 111 757

 

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